What operating system are you using and when you join a room do you just see the spinning logo
of Loading instead of ships?

Operating system Genuine Windows 7 Home Premium 64-bit edit
Processor and Graphics AMD Dual-Core Processor E-350 (1.6GHz, 1MB L2 Cache)+AMD Radeon(TM) HD 6310M Discrete-Class Graphics edit
Memory 4GB DDR3 System Memory (1 Dimm) edit
Hard drive FREE Upgrade to 320GB 5400RPM Hard Drive edit
Office software No Additional Office Software edit
Security software No additional security software edit
Primary battery 6 Cell Lithium Ion Battery (standard) - Up to 5.50 hours of battery life +++ edit
Display 15.6" diagonal High Definition LED HP Brightview Display (1366x768) edit
Primary optical drive SuperMulti 8X DVD+/-R/RW with Double Layer Support edit
Personalization HP Webcam with Integrated Digital Microphone edit
Networking 802.11b/g/n WLAN edit
Keyboard Standard Keyboard

and yes i do see spinning logo's

Check your program settings. The icon you double click to start the game should be set to "Run as Administrator" and "Disable Visual Themes". You might also want to check the "Compatibility Mode" box and choose "Windows 98/ME". All that is in the properties of the icon.

it sorta fixed my problem but whenever a aircraft comes around my ship i lag please help solve this problem