OK as a Win7x64 user I am surprised that you are having as many issues.
For most I would say Win7 is more stable.
So lets see why you are having this much trouble, start by providing the system specs and if you can the
AHN report

what is an ahn report...here is a copy of my dxdiag.

Operating System: Windows 7 Home Premium 64-bit (6.1, Build 7600) (7600.win7_gdr.110408-1633)
Language: English (Regional Setting: English)
System Manufacturer: Hewlett-Packard
System Model: Compaq Presario CQ50 Notebook PC
BIOS: PhoenixBIOS 4.0 Release 6.1
Processor: AMD Turion Dual-Core RM-70 (2 CPUs), ~2.0GHz
Memory: 3072MB RAM
Available OS Memory: 2814MB RAM
Page File: 1256MB used, 4370MB available
Windows Dir: C:\Windows
DirectX Version: DirectX 11
DX Setup Parameters: Not found
User DPI Setting: Using System DPI
System DPI Setting: 96 DPI (100 percent)
DWM DPI Scaling: Disabled
DxDiag Version: 6.01.7600.16385 32bit Unicode

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DxDiag Notes
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Display Tab 1: No problems found.
Sound Tab 1: No problems found.
Input Tab: No problems found.

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DirectX Debug Levels
--------------------
Direct3D: 0/4 (retail)
DirectDraw: 0/4 (retail)
DirectInput: 0/5 (retail)
DirectMusic: 0/5 (retail)
DirectPlay: 0/9 (retail)
DirectSound: 0/5 (retail)
DirectShow: 0/6 (retail)

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Display Devices
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Card name: NVIDIA GeForce 8200M G
Manufacturer: NVIDIA
Chip type: GeForce 8200M G
DAC type: Integrated RAMDAC
Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_10DE&DEV_0845&SUBSYS_360A103C&REV_A2
Display Memory: 1394 MB
Dedicated Memory: 243 MB
Shared Memory: 1151 MB
Current Mode: 1280 x 800 (32 bit) (60Hz)
Monitor Name: Generic PnP Monitor
Monitor Model: unknown
Monitor Id: SEC4E45
Native Mode: 1280 x 800(p) (59.976Hz)
Output Type: Internal
Driver Name: nvd3dumx.dll,nvwgf2umx.dll,nvwgf2umx.dll,nvd3dum,nvwgf2um,nvwgf2um
Driver File Version: 8.15.0011.8644 (English)
Driver Version: 8.15.11.8644
DDI Version: 10
Driver Model: WDDM 1.1
Driver Attributes: Final Retail
Driver Date/Size: 7/24/2009 00:01:00, 9490944 bytes
WHQL Logo'd: Yes
WHQL Date Stamp:
Device Identifier: {D7B71E3E-4B05-11CF-4852-011602C2C535}
Vendor ID: 0x10DE
Device ID: 0x0845
SubSys ID: 0x360A103C
Revision ID: 0x00A2
Driver Strong Name: oem4.inf:NVIDIA_SetA_Devices.NTamd64.6.1:Section020:8.15.11.8644:pci\ven_10de&dev_0845&subsys_360a103c
Rank Of Driver: 00E60001
Video Accel: ModeMPEG2_A ModeMPEG2_C ModeVC1_C ModeWMV9_C
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ok im updating my graphic drivers and praying that helps....but still just with admin mode and disable visual themes the game crashes left and right in lobby I mean dont get me wrong love the game but the fact is with every patch there are 10 more issues then fixes.....Do they properly test the patch before they post it.????

here is what I was looking for
in the game folder there is a subfolder called Hshield and within is a file called "AhnRpt" if you would run that

and Copy and Paste the results of the main screen only here.

Use win98/me compatibility mode. If you ask windows to set it for you it will choose winxp service pack 2 and it wont run right.

Do this on the launcher only

http://i52.tinypic.com/10fc5uh.jpg

OS Windows 7 Home Premium (x64) (6.1.7600)
Internet Explorer Version (64-bit) 8 (8.0.7600.16385)
Internet Explorer Version (32-bit) 8 (8.0.7600.16385)
Firefox Version (32-bit) 5.0 (en-US)
Microsoft Office Version (64-bit) not installed
Microsoft Office Version (32-bit) not installed
.NET Framework Version v2.0 SP2 (2.0.50727.4927) (64-bit,32-bit)
.NET Framework Version v3.0 SP2 (3.0.30729.4926) (64-bit,32-bit)
.NET Framework Version v3.5 SP1 (3.5.30729.4926) (64-bit,32-bit)
.NET Framework Version v4 (4.0.30319) (Client) (64-bit,32-bit)
Country United States (1, Default: 1)
Time zone Eastern Standard Time (GMT-05:00)
UI language 1033 (0x0409)
User Locale English (0409, Default: 0409)
System Locale English (0409, Default: 0409)
ANSI / OEM code page 1252/437 (System: 1252/437)
Computer Name DASMACHINE-PC
Account DasMachine-PC\Das Machine
Admin? Yes
Gina Standard Microsoft GINA DLL

Processor0 AMD Turion Dual-Core RM-70 ~2.00GHz
Processor1 AMD Turion Dual-Core RM-70 ~2.00GHz
MainBoard 360A (Wistron)
Physical Memory 838.17MB free / 3GB
Virtual Memory 3.89GB free / 8.24GB
Drive C NTFS (80.51GB free / 176.49GB)
Drive D NTFS (1.74GB free / 9.82GB)
Display 1280x800, 32bpp, 96dpi, 60Hz

HackShield Version 5, 5, 6, 131

ok still seems to crash in lobby...odd.

Try disabling some of the other stuff you did.

And when you say crash what kind of crash? Does it freeze? Do you get "nf has stopped working"? Is it the new memory crash error?